You don’t need scientific proof to know that women complicate their own lives by choosing to live in a soap opera. The relationship they’re in more often than not feels challenging. You know what I’m talking about. One minute he’s stealing the stars from the sky for you, the next he’s phone’s off and he doesn’t have time to hang out, when you’re well aware of the fact there’s plenty of time on his hands, enough to walk 30 km and back.
The answer is simple: Ego. Women want to see if they can play the part of the “femme fatale” and tame their man, but believe me when I say, the very thing you find attractive in him is the thing you’re trying to get rid of. The truth is, a lot of women out there fantasize about a nice and attentive guy, and when finally such a person enters their life, they’re just not that into him.
The story usually goes like this – a girl’s having troubles with a guy who keeps leaving her behind but that doesn’t stop her from telling herself that “he’s not that bad” or “he just doesn’t express his feelings like I do” which is what a real man is all about, wouldn’t you agree? Yeah right! A real man is one that appreciates you, takes care of you and isn’t afraid to disregard his pride and tell you how he feels. He’s even willing to go the extra mile for you. “Bad boys”, on the other hand, care too much about themselves to even move an inch. A real man won’t forget to call, won’t use stupid lines or come up with childish lies. This is something silly, little boys do. Just remember Einstein’s definition of insanity – “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.
I think we can all agree on one thing. When someone feels strongly about you, they’ll find time to be with you. Everything else is just an excuse. Remember, the only thing that’ll change the next time you start justifying your man’s behavior is your disappointment. It’ll grow bigger. So don’t settle for less than you deserve.
Translation: A. Slišković