Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation for which it is impossible to believe it will ever get a happy ending. We pile up a load of stuff we don’t want to, frustrations including, because we don’t know how to turn these wishes into reality. Let us share a couple of things with you that you may find useful and perhaps succeed in turning wishes into reality. Good luck!
Make a wish list
This may sound simple and too easy. But, sometimes we get confused in our wishes so much that not even we know exactly what we want. The simplest way to solve this is to put everything down on a paper. If you wish to find a true love, write down exactly what you seek for in a person. Let’s give another example: if you want a new dress, make a short description of that dress. Do this for every single wish. You would be surprised to see how difficult it is sometimes to explain precisely what you want. Make sure your list is as thorough as possible.
Define ways which will help you get what you want
After you’ve made a list of wishes and decided what you want, you need to think about the ways to get certain things. For instance, you’ve decided to buy a new dress on sales and that way save up some money. This is a good start. You can meet a person with the qualities you’ve stated as desirable in various places, depending on the person’s interests, but yours own too. There is a way to get everything you want. Write down even those you think are silly and ridiculous. It’ll give you courage and make you think there is really a way to achieve your deepest wishes. Life is magical. You never know when certain doors can open and make your wish come true.
Take concrete steps to turn wishes into reality
Sometimes a plan may seem great at first and later you realize it simply isn’t doable. For this reason, it would be best to organize your plan into a step-by-step. Let’s take dress as an example. You are determined to get a dress and you need money. Do your best to find at least a part-time job or sell an old dress you don’t plan on wearing again. If you want to be with a person who likes music, go to a concert. Perhaps you would like to be with a person who shares the same affection for animals. Take your pet out for a play. In any case, the most important thing is to be realistic about everything and start from the thing which is the most in your range. However, it doesn’t mean you need to ditch other plans in entirety. Sometimes we focus too much on a plan and never even think to change it a bit.
Numerous experts agree that is good to visualize a wish. Take some time to think through everything, on your own. Put yourself in that situation. Imagine details of your new dress like the fabric or the moment you’ll meet that special person. Allow yourself to fantasize. Visualization helps. Some experts explain that visualization helps you to set a clear goal and strengthen motivation. Others, however, explain that by the “laws of the universe”. If you think about something, it returns to you. True or not, it’s worth a try.
Don’t shut yourself off on your way to fulfilling your wishes. Sometimes making a wish and pursuing it (to turn into reality) may help us realize what we really need. For instance, if you badly want some shoes and you search everywhere to find them, perhaps you bump into a person of your life – doing the same thing! Relax and think positive, think how you are heading for your wish which is about to come true.
Translation: G. Dujmović